The Daily Shmiras Ainayim Chizuk – 7th Av, 5769
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Why is Sexual purity so important in Judaism? Our sages called Shmiras Habris “Yesod”, meaning “Foundation”. The foundation of a building is “underground” and no one sees it, yet it holds up the entire building! Shmiras Habris is the hidden part of a Jew, it’s the real you. If the foundation of a Jew is weak, his whole spiritual structure is fragile and in grave danger of collapse. At guardureyes.com we are finally joining together, for ourselves and for all future generations, to strengthen the foundations of our people!
There is a lot of material out there on the subject of guarding the eyes and the Bris, but sometimes “too much” is overwhelming.
A little bit each day is just right, to be able to read, digest and apply it to our lives.
The booklet “Windows to the Soul” by R’ Zvi Miller of the Salant foundation, is a MAN’S PRACTICAL GUIDE TO MASTERING HIS EYES. (Right click the link and choose “Save Target/Link As” to save the PDF booklet to your computer). To subscribe to eMussar, the daily lessons of the Salant Foundation, send email to email@example.com
The Zohar compares this world to a churning ocean and the body of a man to a ship in the sea. Therefore, man requires knowledge in order to guide himself on a straight course, avoiding mishap and losing his way. The ocean of life roars fearfully and continuously. The winds of challenge blow and the negative impulse rips about like a tornado with unimaginable force. All of life comprises great and endless tests, which can easily capsize the ship and sink it into the murky, nethermost depths.
Yirat Shamayim and the study of Mussar will prevent the body from sinking into the miry depths of desire and corrupt character traits.
(Rabbi Yitzchak Blazer, Ohr Yisrael)
Today’s Shmiras Ainayim Chizuk
Go For Holiness (Part 2)
MAKING THE EFFORT-GAINING THE REWARD
1) Each time that a person avoids an improper image Hashem calls him a “holy person” and he is rewarded for performing a Mitzvah.
2) If a person cuts off an improper thought just once, it is “the root of all goodness” because it changes the propensity of his thoughts and actions.
3) Whoever averts his eyes from looking at an improperly dressed woman merits receiving the Shechinah.” (Chazal Derech Eretz 1) The moment a person guards his eyes from looking at an improper sight, he receives the Shechinah, even if he does not sense it.
In the World to Come, on the merit of averting his eyes even one time, a man will see the glorious Shechinah of Hashem (Taharat HaKodesh). Imagine if a man averts his eyes continually!
May we be inspired to avert our eyes from seeing improper sights and merit receiving the holiness of the Shechinah for all eternity.
TODAY: Draw holiness to yourself by controlling your eyes from seeing improper sights.
“Go For Holiness“
The tremendous amount of holiness that Hashem grants me when I control my eyes gives me great strength and inspiration. Yesterday, I was walking by a magazine stand. I immediately reminded myself, “Look away, and you will merit seeing the Shechinah of Hashem!” This thought struck a chord, and I successfully averted the images.
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The Guard Your Eyes Handbook.
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